loving-not-heyting:

loving-not-heyting:

It is tragic and unfair so many people have abusive fathers but the way some people on this site absolutely demand that Dads Specifically are inevitable and essential vectors of abuse is pretty fucking unreal

Just saw a prominent blogger describe like, “Are ya winning son?” memes as “propaganda abt good and emotionally supportive dad fantasies” and it’s like…….. No!! There exist good fathers! People are allowed to fantasise about having good fathers! The makers of memes about supporting your kids are not all shills for Big Dad or smth like what the hell